"I can�t tell you�how many people are embarrassed or ashamed to admit�all they want is to be happy�all they want are some of the simple things," says Madeleine Kay, founder of The Living Serendipitously Institute and Living Serendipitously Enterprises, and best-selling author of the book Serendipity-The Law of Attraction In Action: How to Get Rich (or anything else you want) in 6 Really Easy Steps. The problem is overcoming the feelings of embarrassment or guilt and allowing yourself to achieve true happiness. The following three proactive steps can help you overcome your negative feelings and grasp your goal of true happiness. Step 1: Admit It It may sound hard to believe, but one of the major obstacles between most people and happiness is the simple admittance that the desire to be happy exists. You may pray, wish, or hope, but have you ever actually admitted to yourself that being happy is what you really want? Whether that happiness comes from completing a life goal, making money, or anything else, admitting the desire exists is the first step to reaching your dreams. Step 2: Give Yourself Permission There is nothing wrong with doing what makes you happy. Many people will do something that makes them feel happy and feel as if they must immediately apologize to someone. You do not need permission from anyone to pursue your dreams! It is not selfish or frivolous to want to be happy. You won't ever be able to decide to be happy if you don't give yourself permission to be. Step 3: Make a Decision Don't hope for your goals; don't wish for your goals; don't beg or plead for your goals. Only through making a firm decision to achieve your dreams can you be happy. Make a commitment to happiness and then use your passion and energy to work until you achieve it. Dr. Proactive, Randy Gilbert producer and host of the Inside Success Show enjoyed learning from his interview author and serendipity expert, Madeleine Kay. You can learn these tips and many more on the keys to riches from Madeleine Kay by listening to the entire interview for free by going to www.InsideSuccessRadio.com/Guests/Madeleine-Kay